Why is it that in the male brain love must always equal sex? If for some reason you are not able to do that, or they are not in the mood then there is NO AFFECTION shown at all.
Example A:
When I am a woman doing what women do every 28 days we just don't do it. I think it is gross, and he thinks it is gross, and we are both okay with just not. BUT. By the end of that week I am so starved for affection I delve in to an even deeper state of depression and feeling unwanted.
Example B:
I can understand him not being in the mood once in a while. But after a whole day of being distant and in the same room but no physical contact I start to starve. I ask for a hug and he WON'T do it! He will put me in a headlock and give me a noogy, he will joke around and wrestle me, or give an exasperated sigh and stand there like "fine hug me but make it fast and get it over with." This just PISSES ME OFF!!!!
We have discussed the fact that I am a very touch oriented person. I need to be shown love in a physical manor, but for some reason physical love can only mean sex! I have said it over and over. Just because I touch you it does not mean I am trying to get you naked! Just because we kiss I am not trying to get you naked! Just because you are not horny it doesn't mean you can't be loving. WTF!!!!
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