Ok....
So this is what you don't say to your wife...
Why are you depressed? I thought pregnant women were suppose to be happy.
The kids always listen to ME. YOU must not be consistent.
You never feel good.
What did you do all day?
All of these things have been said by my wonderful husband when he is suffering from something that I like to think is an oxygen shortage in his brain. The last one was said to me just last night after one of the longest days of my life. I about died. He didn't just say it in passing. He picked up the phone and called me on the cell phone while I was out grocery shopping. Then when I get home and am a whirlwind of fury and house cleaning he tells me not to be angry. I about lost it. What kind of a reaction do you expect when you call someone and tell them that they are a lazy person that is not living up to your expectations for them? HONESTLY!!!
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Or maybe he honestly doesn't know what you do all day! Maybe he isn't aware of what you have to do every day. Or maybe he is just trying to understand you!
ReplyDeleteOr maybe he is just an idiot! He is a little sexist and stupid sometimes, too! Sorry!
A lot of men are kind of spoiled in the fact that they never really see behind the scenes of what their wives do every day. Not just the physical cleaning and running of the house, but also how mentally and emotionally tiring it is to be home all day with small children! It takes a lot!
Hang in there! And kick his "#*$&%^#" every once in a while!